Gulliver wrote: ↑Thu Jan 26, 2023 4:26 am
TokyoBoglehead wrote: ↑Mon Jan 23, 2023 9:46 am
Beaglehound wrote: ↑Mon Jan 23, 2023 9:41 am
I think he is upset the inaka village didn’t react enthusiastically to the prospect of him and his family moving there.
When I read that passage, it sounded more like they were warning him off moving there for his own good.
I.E, You probably are not going to like the lifestyle here, and we are all so old we aren`t going to change. Which would seem perfectly reasonable.
Not "You are not welcome".
That was quite a feat of mental gymnastics.
A racist backwater is a racist backwater no matter how much window dressing you put on it, or where in the world you are.
""This is such a beautiful place," I said to them. "I'm sure lots of people would love to live here. How would you feel if I brought my family to live here?"
The air in the room went still. The men looked at each other in silent embarrassment. Then one cleared his throat and spoke, with a worried look on his face: "
Well, you would need to learn our way of life. It wouldn't be easy."
The village was on the path to extinction, yet
the thought of it being invaded by "outsiders" was somehow worse."
Given he couldn't understand the driving reeducation lecture, I'm not sure how he had the above conversation.
(And the fact he thinks people are allow to sleep in those lectures caused me to question his qualifications. Due to the fastidious nature of traffic rule enforcement here in Japan I've sat through that lecture more times than I care to mention.
You can do a lot of things in there. Frankly, aside from dive bombing you'd get away with many things prohibited in a public swimming pool (and I'm including the legendary "petting"!) but the one thing you can't do in there is sleep.
I'd estimate 60% of the lecturer's efforts are keeping people awake, including walking over and shouting at them! but I digress.
If anyone here is giving their noggin a work-out it's anyone thinking it's effortless to move to a rural part of anywhere and be welcomed unquestioningly with open arms and minds.
IMO. If you do actually make effort to intergrate I think you'd find it easier to integrate here simply based on supply and demand. That's based on things I've heard from people I've met or read on things like the simplelife japan board. Also my experiencing moving to a rural part of england and engaging with people that were even more rural than that!
There's a big difference between joiing a rural community and just proping up the numbers on a new build estate..