You can go back, but it’s not the same

On our last full day in the UK (we’re back in Japan now), I took the grandkids to visit my old college. It’s very ‘Harry Potter’-y and we rented one of the college punts for a couple of hours of fun on the river (messing about in boats). Dropped into the pub I always went to for dinner too. They had a great time.

I enjoyed it too, but for a different reason. I spent three years there, three important years. Developmental years. There are so many memories, good and bad.

It was almost too much.

In a way, I wish I could go back and do it again. To be eighteen again, with my current knowledge and habits. It would be incredible.

But of course that is not possible (and might even not turn out as well as I imagine it would).

It was good to relive some of those memories. And I’m still thinking about it now.

Sometimes it is good to revisit the past.

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This week’s books

Still reading the Foundation series by Asimov. On book 4 now. I’m reading them in order of publication, so the prequels at the end.

I’m also re-reading the Locke Lamora trilogy by Scott Lynch. Slightly violent fantasy, similar to Joe Abercrombie’s stuff. Good for long plane trips.

This week’s links

  1. Indeed: Living in the future
  2. Ugh. So that is what happened to me after 40… Scientists find humans age dramatically in two bursts – at 44, then 60
  3. Had this on my trip -40 degrees in northern Spain where it would usually be in the low 20s: Unprecedented number of heat records broken around world this year
  4. Crazy. There was no coffee at all when I studied there in the late 90s: China is now the world leader in coffee shops
  5. I’ve never heard of these! Japan’s neighborhood watering holes
  6. Very much felt this in London. We ended up in restaurants where you had to order and pay through their app, which was a huge pain. Give me a menu and let me pay normally please! Analog Is Cool Again

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4 Responses

  1. Beautiful college. I went to the other place, but visited Cambridge often because that’s where the girlfriend was. I love both cities.
    I think Cambridge is the same as Oxford, 3 8-week terms (at that time, anyway, early 70s) right?
    That’s 24 weeks a year x 3 = just 72 weeks in all. As you hint, intense, idyllic times, indeed, and many friendships formed that have lasted down through the decades. Actually, I’m going to a college reunion next month.

    I enjoyed the kakuuchi article. We have one in our little country town, started by some young sake lovers who moved here form elsewhere.

  2. You could go back as a mature student to do research, a second degree or even a Phd. If that sounds too ambitious, you could just audit a few classes. I can imagine myself wandering around a university campus in my 80s.

    Some unfortunate teachers in Japan don’t need a time machine to experience the past — they are still earning 1970s salaries in 2024:

    https://www.asahi.com/ajw/articles/15349927

    1. Actually, I have thought about spending a summer there (mainly in the University library). Would probably be a wee bit pricey though!