Last year was kind of mixed for me. I got a lot done, was able to travel more, enjoyed not having a fixed schedule, and had very little stress.
But at the same time my health deteriorated and I found myself very distracted online. In particular, my smartphone use became problematic.
I started playing a ‘free to play’ game on my phone that is basically unlimited and requires tens of thousands of hours of grinding to play. I also often ended up in an email->twitter->facebook->instagram->linkedin->email endless loop. The combination of the two meant that over time I ended up reaching for my phone whenever I had a free moment, and spending a lot of low quality time on it.
No more.
Yesterday I deleted the game and all social media apps. Immediately my phone became much less interesting. It basically only has email on there now, so there is nowhere to loop to after checking that there is no new email 🙂
I already feel better, although I still find myself pulling the phone out for no reason.
Did a lot more reading yesterday too on my Kindle.
Something I should have done a while ago.
How about you? Do you have any harmful distractions in your life? Is there any way you could reduce or eliminate them?
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This week’s links
- It’s the system, stupid: Human ‘behavioural crisis’ at root of climate breakdown, say scientists
- Interesting analysis: What happens in China may not stay in China
- We don’t have our emergency bags yet, even after going through 3-11: Disaster Preparedness: Emergency Bags in Japan
- For UK citizens abroad, some important issues: British Overseas Voters Forum
- Interesting scale. I guess we are between 4 and 5 on here: The 5 levels of financial freedom, according to married money coaches, who say they’ve reached level 3
- A very pessimistic take (YouTube): Bear Market, Recession, Layoffs: Lots Of Ways For 2024 To Get Worse | John Rubino
- Nice introduction to index investing (YouTube): If I Started Investing In 2024, This Is What I Would Do
- Not sure about this long-term investment (he should definitely triple the price or something): Order now, get Kobe beef croquettes 38 yrs later: Delivery time growing at Japan butcher
- Maybe Japan should stop hosting these white elephant events: Osaka Expo’s fate remains uncertain three months prior to vital deadline
- Awful, awful, awful stuff. The prosecutors should be in prison: Aishima Shizuo: A Victim of Japan’s “Hostage Justice” System
- I’m not sure this guy has fully thought through the logistics of having that many children while not being the ruler of Japan: Japanese Man, 35, Has 4 Wives And 2 Girlfriends, Hasn’t Worked In 10 Years As He Lives Off Them
- The counterargument (I plan to do the opposite but I can understand the reasoning here): Why I Plan to Collect Social Security as Early as Possible
- Seems a bit one-sided, but I agree. Just scrap the trainee thing and give people normal working visas and normal working conditions: From violence to cost, Japanese egg farmer cites problems with foreign trainee program
- I love this kind of story: Indian teen invents gadget that may transform dementia care
- Tokyo from the view of a visitor (more thoughtful than many articles on the topic): Impressions from a Longer Stay in Tokyo (2023)
- Okay, now I feel bad about my annual review 😉 2023 Review — The year I learned to fly
- Thankfully I have never struggled with alcohol, but my brother did: For you, who needs more than a Dry January
- This was more interesting than usual from Ray Dalio: 2024: A Pivotal Year on the Brink
- Low yen, new normal? The Houthis, A Disappointing Wage Report, and the Tumbling Yen
- I like this. Going to have to take more time on RJ blog posts: On Slow Writing
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The degree to which ‘check your phone’ is a reflex action is a problem. Between any actions, you gotta check your phone. Wake up, check, eat, check, shower, check, get to a place, check, toilet, check, etc etc
I’m better now than a few years ago, but it’s still out of hand and I’m skimming off a lot of reflective, peaceful minutes from every hour.
Sounds very similar to me. I am working on leaving it in a different room to charge when I get home and only picking it up again when I leave. Baby steps!
I invested in an alarm clock recently. I leave my phone charging in a different room (downstairs), and this way, I don’t pick up my phone first thing in the morning. It is more relaxing.
I recommend the book スマホ脳 (this is the Japanese translation of a book by a Swedish writer).
Ooh, that sounds interesting! Thanks for the recommendation 🙂
Did I read this here? Generally, to paraphrase:
“…do less, but do what you do better.”
Some Roman stoic.
Or, you could pursue something like #11.
Ha, ha, I can’t imagine anything worse than having to wrangle dozens of kids… three grandkids is more than enough 🙂
Re #3: You can get good emergency backpacks and dry plastic toilet bags via Furusato Nozei donations!
We bought a ready-prepared disaster backpack from a recent charity start-up called “Think the Day” (sic). The good thing about it is, all proceeds apparently go to the latest earthquake relief fund. I’m quite impressed with the quality of the contents of the bag.
https://thinktheday.org/
For your smartphone habits I’d recommend (if you haven’t read it yet) the book Digital Minimalism. No need to go to the minimalism side of things but it will help you review the smartphone habits.
Without some guidelines you’ll end up in the loop again 😛